Last November, after celebrating another wonderful Thanksgiving at my sister’s house, I was driving my father back to his home. During the ride, I asked my father, who will be 99-years-old in early December, “How did you enjoy the day?” He turned to me and replied, “Any day with the family is a great day.”
Naturally, my father’s thoughtful comment brought tears of appreciation to my eyes. My father’s joy lies in his wish, as is the hope of virtually all fathers and mothers, to witness their sons and daughters growing up and living a full, healthy and wholesome life where peace, love and caring are the norm.
As we know, such hopes for Thanksgiving are put to the test at times. As our families gather together for Thanksgiving 2015, horrific acts of violence both in our nation and in countries around the world continue to challenge the mettle of even the strongest among us. During a recent sermon at the Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris, where a memorial service was conducted in homage to the victims of that city’s deadly terrorist attack, Paris’ Cardinal Andrew Vingt-Trois said, “We pray for hope, not hate.”
As families gather around the table on this Thanksgiving, it is most appropriate to hold hands with loved ones as heartfelt words of reflection are spoken. During this time, we are able to express our gratitude for all that we have and reflect on those we love who are with us either from a distance or in spirit. This Thanksgiving, may we also offer a special thought for those who unfortunately have experienced deep suffering and pain by wishing for their recovery or consolation.
Finally, let us especially reflect on our children here in Manhasset and around the world, that they will grow up in societies where joy, laughter and innocence are the norm and my father’s words, “Any day with the family is a great day,” may be their lived experience.
I hope that you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your families!
—Superintendent Charles Cardillo
